Nothing makes us feel more virtuous than announcing (to ourselves) our intentions to market and sell our services. This week, or this month, or this whatever, we are going to "e-mail prospects" and "call potential clients" and "prepare that mailing piece for prospects" and more.
So let me ask you: what are the names of those prospects and potential clients? Are you thinking of "Mary Smith" and "George Brown"? Are you talking about "the training director at XYZ" and the "owner of Small Business, LLC"?
If not, will you have anything to show for your marketing efforts, at the end of the week or month, beyond failed good intentions?
Why We Don't Make It Personal
There's a reason that so many consultants are happy planning their contacts with "prospects" but hide under the bed when contemplating "calling Mary" and "e-mailing George."
The simple fact is that vague definitions of "marketing activity" make us less accountable to ourselves for actually pulling the trigger on those activities. Preparation is important, of course, but I'm willing to bet that you know from your own experience how easy it is to prepare and prepare and prepare as a way to avoid actually doing anything.
Much of that comes down to fear of rejection, to anticipated embarrassment. When you think of doing a mailing to "prospects" it is easy to visualize some of them (albeit as shadowy, silhouette figures) responding to you. When you visualize Mary or George, it becomes easy to see them saying "No" to your overtures, and that hurts, even before it happens.
To tell the truth, that's one reason why so many consultants are pinning all their hopes on online marketing -- web sites and Twitter and Facebook. It's a matter of relief. Those things make you feel like you're getting your message in front of a lot of prospects, but it is easy to get a lot of "hits" without getting any business. It is easy to attract a lot of "tire kickers" that are not qualified to be included in your target market.
Individualize Your Targets
It takes guts, frankly, to make your marketing a more personal activity. You have to be willing to attempt to build a relationship with an individual, not with a vague pool of visitors or crowd of followers.
When you start looking for individual prospects, of course, you return to your target market, you start qualifying your prospects ... and you stop wasting a lot of effort on people who are never, ever going to pay for your services.
If you plan to take action, in the next week or two, to build your consulting business, you can put out some Tweets that might -- might! -- be seen by a good number of followers. You can send materials to lists of companies ("ABC Corp, Attention: Training Dept.").
Or you can identify three specific names of qualified prospects and choose a way of getting in front of them.
The latter approach will take a lot more work, and -- very, very important -- will be emotionally challenging. It is much more stressful, and you have to face that.